THE REALITY OF LIFE.
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WHEN LOVE IS NOT ENOUGH.
WHEN
LOVE IS NOT ENOUGH.
There are times in a
relationship when “LOVE” is not enough. This is the time you need to engage
your brain, wisdom and your sixth sense. Most people get so carried away all in
the name of love.
They start to do
things; they normally would not do and keep using the cliché “IT IS BECAUSE I
LOVE YOU”. Learn this fact, “NO MORTAL MAN OR WOMAN CAN DIE FOR YOU”.
As long
as blood flows through that vein, we are all a victim of the same sickness, weakness,
ideas and mentality. Loving someone does not mean losing grip of reality and
yourself, because once you do that, you have definitely gotten everything all
wrong.
When love is combined
with been smart and realistic, then you have succeeded in loving someone and
still knowing what is right and what is forbidden.
Why then should you
inconvenience yourself to please someone, don’t you know you can never love
that person more than yourself. There are certain position of compromise and
inhuman sacrifice that this so called love will put you, and the only way to
get yourself out without a scratch or a scar is to engage your brain, shut your
heart, (that doesn’t mean you should be cold hearted), disengage the motion of
your emotions, put to use your wisdom and learn to listen to your conscience.
A love that always
bends you into its own selfish shape shouldn’t be enough to carry you on in
that relationship, well that is if you want something good from it. There will
come a period in that relationship when what separates you from suffering from
a heart break and a life of a long time union of joy and happiness is an act of
wisdom, brilliance, courage and a dare devil action. Not every time should you
dance to the tune of love, even though the tune is sweet, but too much of it
could get you drowsy, tipsy and slavish, you just discover that you no longer
do things, or take decisions from the right frame of your loving mind.
Do not let love get
you blind, love is not enough reason for
him to lay hands on you, it is not enough for him to treat you like trash, is
love enough reason to assume his level of commitment, or wish that one day he
or she will be committed. The more you keep leaving everything to love the more
pain you will be bringing to your fragile heart.
There are times when
love cannot give you the comfort, convenience, assurance, conviction and
believe that you need in life, because so many have successfully infiltrated
the scared order of love, they have turned it into a weapon of lies and deceit,
that is why you need to know what else to fall on, that inner strength that is
immune to the weakness and sickness love brings with it.
Or don’t you know
there is another life outside your so called love life. A messed up love life
could mess up the other side of anyone’s life. Wake up from that love drunk
fever, life is too real to be mistaken for an “M&B Novel”, a “TITANIC
MOVIE”, or a “FREAKY MAKE BELIEVE STORY”. Don’t you know that? A misguided
emotion can cause commotion.
Always have this at
the back of your mind that there will come a time, when love would not be
enough for you to take that very important decision, of either staying or
leaving that relationship or friendship.
Know
this; A RELATIONSHIP IS LIKE A SHIP THAT REQUIRES MORE THAN ONE CAPTAIN TO VOYAGE
IT TO ITS GLORIOUS DESTINATION. So get on your feet and do something
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