THE REALITY OF LIFE.
Thursday, June 19, 2014
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Is He The Best For You?
Is He The Best For You?
When a lady falls in love, everything around her tends to fall with her,
just like a drunk man fall to the effect of alcohol. The question is,
who said he is the right one or the best for you. Am not talking about a
fling, or just a flash in the path, it is far from that.
He might
not be the best life and love has to offer, if you really could just
take time to see and think things over rationally and not emotionally,
radically and not sexually. Who says you should not expect too much or be given the best out of what love and passion offers to a woman. He sometimes toils with you and get you all worked up, but you keep saying “what can i do” or “he will change soon. Do not be deceived and never hide away from a reality staring at you, because it may catch up with you when you least expect it to.
Who told you that is the best a
man can offer you, he lays his hands on you at the slightest
provocation, so quick to say sorry even when he knows he is not, takes
you for granted, tampers and mess with your emotion every time just
because you have fallen in love, has he? If he has, don’t you think
things will be different?
You know what being disrespected means has a
lady, but he serves it to you hot and fresh every day and you turn your
loving face the other way, just because you think he is the best for
you, or there is nothing better outside what he gives. Before the door
closes you can still take your leave without the neighbours knowing.
The
longer time you spend in this atmosphere of indecision and
contemplation the deeper you fall into that reality, which carries less
than what you deserve as lady/woman. Being a woman is not an excuse not
to get the best out of love, friendship, passion, sex and marriage. Like
a man, he always has the power of choice, who says you don’t have such
powers.
Take things easy and check to know if he is the best for you.
Do you see such person as a father figure or just a sexy and romantic
idol? Why should he give little and get so much from you, why should you
stop loving you, just to love and worship him, is he GOD? Like they say
we are all small gods, believe it or not.
He never thinks of you
first, but you do most times and you feel he is the best life can offer
you, or the best you can get. Always remember this, “you can be wrong
for days, weeks and months, but never be caught on the wrong side
forever, because if you are there might be no going back”.
You stay
with him out of obligation, or out of been part of a supposed culture,
ideology, perception or just so that your friends won’t say you can’t
keep a man, who says that is a man/guy for keeps, look beyond now and
gaze into the future, something better is there for you, if only you can
dare to take that bold step, tell yourself the truth, find things deep
into their roots, not every fruit is worth it.
Do not make the
mistake of settling for less, he may not actually be the best; check out
the rest so that your mind can be at rest. Listen to both your heart
and brain; there is no blind love anymore.
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10 Ways To Fight Depression
10 Ways To Fight Depression.
1----One thing you must know is, the mind is a place where depression
grows to eventually become a menace to the whole of your system.
So
try as much as possible to engage your mind with positive activities,
positive thoughts, a positive way of life and so on, just make sure your
mind is not free for a depressing thought to creep in, why? cause a
positive thought or activity takes you far away from whatever issues or
problems facing you.
2------ You must try as much as possible to avoid anxiety and difficult issues , problems , peoples views or opinions must not be allowed to take over your mind easily,because if it does , you become too anxious which predisposes you to been depressed.
3----- When bored or moody, never try to find solace in drinks, sex, food or drugs, they only compound issues.
4------
Boredom, loneliness, idleness, low self esteem and lack of self
confidence are factors that exposes an individual to depression, so to
avoid it, engage in pro-active activities like "SPORTS".
5-------
Have at least 2-3 mind lifting friends , keep companies that add value
to your life, try to find someone you trust and respect to talk to,
because depression thrives in silence, communication exposes it.
6------- Never be caught idle, because it makes the mind go astray in search of crazy and depressing thoughts .
Engage your mind with activities that keeps it focused, activities like "READING OR TAKING A WALK".
7------
A low self esteem dampens the mind, which invites depression, so to
conquer depression, your self esteem must burn high like steam.
8------
If you are not confident with your self then everything people say
especially the negative ones gets to you and bring the spirit down ,
which automatically exposes you to depression.
Build a genuine self
confidence from inside you, remind yourself everyday that you are "
BEAUTIFUL, BRILLIANT, INTELLIGENT AND HARDWORKING."
9------ Avoid
getting ANGRY easily, don't be jealous, never house any hatred towards
anyone live with a free mind,that could be all the liberation you need
from depression.
10------ Don't blame yourself for whatever have
happened or happening to you, this is the only way to clear your mind
from all guilt and self condemnation.
------ FINALLY, TRY NOT TO
WAKE UP ON THE WRONG SIDE OF YOUR BED AND IF YOU WORK PLEASE FIND TIME
TO RELAX YOUR NERVES, GO OUT ON A VACATION, EITHER WITH YOUR FAMILY OR
ALONE BUT JUT DO SOMETHING OUT SIDE WORK! WORK!
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Brazil 2014 WORLD CUP
Brazil 2014 WORLD CUP.
Are you excited yet? Because i am; have you caught the fever? Has the
bug of this beautiful mundial stung you?, if it hasn't then you are
actually in another planet... Here on earth something great is about to
happen, history is about to be made, stars are about to converge, racial
and ethnic segregation is about to diverge, dreams are on the verge of
being born.
No one is left out in this party, you do not need an invite, all you need is the love and passion for this game... It is not only a game, it is the union of the world under the euphoria of a divine conviviality...Everyone has a reason to celebrate, from the blast of the whistle of the first game, to the blast of the whistle of the last game. The land of a great culture, tradition, spirituality and divinity is about to host the rest of the world under the umbrella of a beautiful and unifying game.
The Olympic has its own spirit, the
UEFA league has its own passion, the commonwealth games has its own
uniqueness, tennis, golf and cricket have their various qualities, but
the FIFA World Cup coming to Brazil has more than tradition, history,
passion and dedication behind it, what it carries is beyond the
physical, it has transcended into the spiritual not leaving out a
beautiful reality for us all to feel and wallow in.
We all pray that
our ambassadors represent us well, Cotedivore, Nigeria, Cameroun, Ghana
and Algeria... The power of our Ancestors, will protect you, the
struggles of our heroes be behind you, and may the power of the one who
made heaven and the earth be with you all, may you come back home
victorious, no battle will be lost on that soil, though it is a foreign
land, our minds and heart will not be moved.
Tell the gods of
Brazil we are coming, let the people and the land get ready, for
something unusual, hearts and souls are about to roar and shout till the
see glory, never let anyone tell you this story. A gathering of the
high and mighty, low and high, powerful and arrogant, loving and
unfriendly, enemies and foes will dine and trade tackles under the
glaring eyes of the world. Please don’t hold your breath, it is not the
best, because what you are about to see will leave you breathless.
I can’t wait, my imagination is getting wary, my mind is gradually
playing tricks on me, all i want is to behold the 2014 world cup; that
is what the world is waiting for, so let it pour. Wet our appetite with
the sweet taste of joy, hope, fear, tears, pride, unity, peace, love and
wonder.
Though some stars are missing, sadly, but that won’t stop
the sky in Brazil from smiling, that won’t put on hold the ecstasy that
the world will feel and live in for this moment, records will be set and
broken, brace yourself because this flight is taking you a destination
of marvels and utmost glory.
Viva Brasília, welcome to the world of 2014….
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