TIT-BITS ABOUT LIFE.

In life there are certain points and clues we all need to get through in the mist of daily strive and challenges. Like commandments, these tit-bits are there to guide, protect, correct, control, prevent and defend man’s journey in life.

Never let your guard down when all eyes are on you. Always protect your strength from the attacks that comes from around you. What can’t kill you when you are there cannot kill you when you are away. Make the world guess your next move, play them like a game of chess, never put all your eggs in any basket. When you watch your back, your front is protected.

Know that they are like sniffing dogs, ready to give you away to the one you are running away from. Talk less and think more, never think that the next man has your back, life is truly a bitch. The only anti-dote against the shock of the unknown is to always know and be conscious of what goes on in your zone. It is like a throne it must never be compromised. 

Express yourself, not so swiftly but meticulously, be slow to put your emotions in motion, build a fence round your heart, a tall one at that, never leave the gate of your mind opened just for anyone or anything to get in.

Once the security of your mind is bridged, then the bridge will soon collapse.  Know that the world use sweet words as decoy, be able to differentiate a decoy from a missile. Not all actions were intended for good, not all good were meant to be so. Always give yourself reality check every time the opportunity comes your way. 

What you get for free most times carries less value than the one that came through every drop of your sweat, tears, blood and passion.

You are only human behind closed doors, but a superhuman in the eyes of the world. Let no one know the way to your weakness, except the one you know won’t use it against you. Which might be hard to find?  You might be poor financially and get away with it, but may never get away with being poor intellectually, socially, spiritually and emotionally. The next man or woman is looking out for just a crack in that your guarded and supposed well-built confidence, so seal every crack that can capsize your boat of confidence.

To be in control, learn to look people in the eyes, it really helps to melt all ice of fear and shame. What you see in the mirror is not all that defines who you are, how you see yourself is how the hostile world will treat you. Know that no one can love you more than you. What you don’t have you can’t give, what you can’t give don’t even expect in return.

Tears was not just made, it is a very good therapy in healing a broken heart, know that no one has the power  to hold you to ransom, only your maker has such powers. To be on the safer side of life why don’t you choose to be a good listener, rather than being a loud and unending talker? You don’t pay for words is not enough excuse to use them slavishly and carelessly, always learn to account for every word that falls from your lips. 

A good kiss starts from the picture of the real thing, sex is not a tool, but an art meant to paint beautiful pictures that celebrates joy, happiness, responsibility, mutual respect and continuity.

What works for the other person, may never work for you, don’t you know we all have our unique path and calling right from creation. You may not know, but that thing you fear also fears you, so why don’t you make a move and see what happens.

In anything you do, always have a plan b. What you think you can’t do is the thing that is waiting for you to actually do. Limitations starts from the mind, passion is not seen with the eyes, dreams never leave that position you saw it, if you don’t push it out of its comfort zone. You don’t have someone to love you, is that all? What should the one that doesn’t even believe in love do? If you stop doing good because they pay you back with evil, you should be ashamed of yourself.

The greatest mistake you can ever make is to look down on anyone, the best gift to give is your time and the best thing you can ever do for yourself is to tell yourself the truth, as raw as it comes. Jealousy is not a good perfume to wear, it repels favour. As a woman your goals in life is not at the mercy of any man and know that the best actor that is yet to get the real Oscar is man. 

Never make friends out of obligations, pity, favour, looking for acceptance, the trend, society or what the next person says. The company you keep can either keep and protect your dreams or lay it loosely on the way of destruction.

The one and only place that we all should pray so hard to have access to, is the dark corners of a man or woman’s mind, because once the mind has been captured, the rest is very easy and smooth. The only one that knows the path to the soft part of any man is his mother, to him that is an angel that must never be disobeyed.

A woman sees her fellow woman as a threat because they both know what they are capable of. She sees a woman and looks back, as if danger is near. 

An angry dog is no man’s best friend, you need not introduce yourself to a dog time will do it for you.

The living thinks breath is their birth right, while the dead begs for a second chance.   

A man needs just one reason to have good sex, but a woman may need so many reasons to have sex. A man believes there is no woman he can’t sweep off her feet, while a woman is waiting for the man that can resist her charm.